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3/28/10

The Golden Rule

Do to others as you would have them do to you.  Luke 6:31

I can't count the number of times this verse has been the topic of conversation in our home lately.
 

Raising a teenager often comes with time spent consoling feelings hurt by friends.  These hurt feelings may occur through broken plans, thoughtless words spoken, or being excluded from activities.

I have come to know that occurrences like these are tools God can use to train us up in His righteousness, if we are responsive to them.  There have been many times in my life where I have been hurt, mistreated or felt used.  While it's understandable to want to be comforted during these times, it's important to see the lesson from God in it.  


As an adult, I have learned that God allows me to feel the pain of hurt for a reason; it doesn't feel good to be treated that way.  Therefore, when dealing with others, I need to be careful not to treat them in the same manner.  When I am tempted to do this, I often catch myself, because I am quickly reminded of the pain I felt when it happened to me.  This principle is summed up in Luke 6:31.  If we know how it feels to be mistreated, we shouldn't treat others in the same manner. My daughter is now understanding this valuable lesson, too.


 
I'm linking this post with Charlotte and Ginger's Spiritual Sundays. Please visit their blog for some great spiritual food!

Thanks for stopping by!

9 comments:

Marsha's Mpressions said...

Hi Jane, You know so many times we feel pain for whatever reason and the person we think offended us doesn't even know what they did. In my more mature years, I am trying to be more careful what I say and when I say it. :)

Denise said...

This has always been one of my favorite verses and how I try to live my life.

Doris Sturm said...

Hello Jane,

I want to let you know that I left you an "Easter Basket" on my blog if you want to come and see it.

http://crochetingingeorgia.blogspot.com/2010/03/hersheys-better-basket-blog-hop.html

Hippity-Hop - hope it makes you smile!

Doris :-)

Rhodema A. Cargill said...

Jane,

I have teens and I often tell them that when others hurt them, they can't change others but they can remember how the pain felt- and determine not to treat another that same way.

Thanks for sharing.

Ann said...

Even as "seasoned" christians, we (I) find myself opening my mouth before I consider how it could affect others. This is a verse that we all need to reflect on daily.
Thanks for sharing.
Ann

enchantingcottage said...

This is a wonderful post. My heart hurts just thinking about my grandchildren getting their feelings hurt. PRAYER, I can't live without it.
Blessings,
Ginger

char72 said...

This is a great lesson that I wish the whole world would learn. Thank you for sharing this reminder.
Blessings for a wonderful week.
Charlotte

char72 said...

This is a great lesson that I wish the whole world would learn. Thank you for sharing this reminder.
Blessings for a wonderful week.
Charlotte

char72 said...

Huh oh. Looks like I accidentally posted the comment twice. Sorry.
Charlotte

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