I know I haven’t blogged much at all in the past few months, but there has been quite a lot going on in our family. One of the more special and spectacular things is the marriage of my amazing niece Mary to a wonderful young man named Stuart.
Stuart is from Australia, and he and Mary met online many years ago. They were casual friends for a very long time, but as they got to know each other through many long conversations, their friendship grew into a truly beautiful love. Finally, last fall, Stuart was able to fly to the U.S. to meet Mary (and us, her family) in person. He stayed a month, and during that time, we all grew to care for him, too. He fit in well with our family, and seeing how happy Mary was with him and how good they were for each other solidified our fondness for him. They became engaged during his visit, and plans were begun to help him move to this country.
The visa process is a long and complicated one, and it was seven months before it was completed on both sides of the “pond”. In the meantime, Mary and her mother Mae were able to make a trip to Australia to see Stuart again and meet his family. They had a wonderful time! Stuart’s family is just as warm and friendly as he is, and Mary and Mae felt very welcome there. Both dads have gotten to talk by phone and email, and they’ve also become friends. The lines of communication are very open between the two families, and that is an incredibly positive and helpful thing.
Stuart’s visa was finally approved, and he flew to the U.S. on July 30. Because of the requirements set by a “fiancé” visa, the wedding had to take place soon after his arrival here. Additionally, they needed to be married to live in married housing on Mary’s college campus, and she was in the midst of summer classes and couldn’t leave. So, on Monday evening, August 1st, we held a simple, sweet wedding with family and friends present at Mary’s home. The photos you see here are from that wedding.
On August 13th, Mary and Stuart will have a more traditional church wedding with all the accouterments, and, like most other important things we do, it will be very much a family affair (and yes, I’ll share those photos with you, too!). Mary’s dad, my brother David, has a best friend who is an ordained minister, and he performed the home ceremony and will be conducting the second ceremony in his own church. Mae has done all of the flowers herself (she has an incredible flair with flowers) and will even be making the wedding cake. Mary’s brother Chris is a talented musician and will be taking care of the music for the church wedding and reception afterward. Other musically-inclined family and friends will also be contributing their skills. Rather than have caterers and professional wedding planners involved, a multitude of relatives and friends will be taking part in everything, including the decorating and food preparation. Stuart is even going to make a few authentic Australian dishes for the reception dinner, and his visiting family will certainly not be left out of the fun. It’s going to be a true family celebration for Mary and Stuart!
Stuart’s dad David and brother Daniel will be making the trip from Australia for the wedding on the 13th and spending a few days before and after with the newlyweds and visiting with us. We will show them a little Kentucky hospitality and provide them with some (hopefully) genuine American experiences.
Not many couples can say they had two weddings within two weeks, but these celebrations will give Mary and Stuart some beautiful memories that will last their entire lives. They are expressions of caring and support by the people who love them best, and that’s what family is all about.
Thanks for stopping by!
Sherry